The Quality of Our Relationship

“The quality of our relationship with anyone necessarily affects the quality of our relationship with everyone else. True or false? And why?”

Perhaps, the quality of our relationship with ourself may also affect the quality of our relationship with everyone else. I was deep into an afternoon nap when the above thoughts seemed to drift – no, it wasn’t a drift. It was pushed into my mind. How is that possible when one is asleep, or at least was asleep before being awakened with thoughts too deep to deal with in a groggy state of mind?

How can anyone, half asleep ponder the implicatons of personal relationships having global (more or less) consequences? And, what if they do? What can I do about it?

But, perhaps if they do, then we need to be careful about being pulled into potentially stressful situations. On the other hand, we can be overly careful, and fear commiting to more than surface relationships.

Perhaps the middle way is to develop both strength and flexibility in our capacity for emotional and intellectual communication.

Published by jeanw5

A Journal of a journey, with Spirit as my guide, using the wisdom of I Ching, an ancient explanation of change as a necessary part of life, to understand Life, and where, how, and why my life has developed as it has, and where do I go from here, and how, and why. My mission, purpose, or desire is to share my struggle toward and passion for enlightenment, without having a clear idea of what it will look like when I find it, and I intend to find it, sooner or later. Meanwhile I seem to be struggling toward enlightenment without a clear road map, unless Spirit, my constant companion (did He invite himself along, for laughs, perhaps?) is hiding it from me, for whatever reason. Vancouver, BC Canada is the only place I care to live, in this world. Perhaps it's not entirely by choice. My name is carved into a nearby sidewalk, as if to remind me where I belong. I am blessed to have Spirit as a teacher. Just ask him.

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